I use to deal with someone that thought they were better then me...then I realized he was intimidated by me. He was more scared about the circumstances he would be held up to. A man can sometimes stray away from you because he doesn’t want to be a disappointment to you. Sometimes a man really does know exactly what you are worth or how he wants to treat you. So don’t be discouraged by a man who is weary when you know he loves you. Just let him find his way.
What does the man of your dreams consist of? I’ll tell you, everything that makes you weak strong and every emotion in between a healthy relationship consists of everything that makes you live. A real love connection is great and terrible is arguments and forgiveness is stumps and growth. Being creatures of habit and one that lose interest fast is not for you.
It is imperative that you find someone that you learn and know something about daily the key to this is accepting it. If you can’t accept or indulge a flaw then you do not love this person to your fullest existent and at the end of the day is that really love, boredom, or infatuation?
When you think about love don’t solely think about yourself but think about them and see whether or not the love is real or flaw.
Love is so real and beyond the games and images you see on the internet but the greatest above all LOVE isnt selfish be selfless.
I Love y’all
Gooood Morning Wild Things,
Someone didn’t ask me anything the “topic” or letter actually appeared to be cry. It was wrote it on today Tuesday 9/19/18. I read it once, and again a fourth time and now here I am writing to you minutes after. I know this is on you heavy because you wrote so early in the A.M. Now I really don’t know what advice to offer you but I just want to offer my outlook on a lot of people in general and my advice to them. Maybe something will hit you.
In my opinion nowadays nobody wants love but rather acceptance, envy, and clout. When I say love I’m not necessarily speaking intimately. I more so saying lacking self love people want everybody to show them love when they don’t even love themselves enough to be themselves. So how in the hell is the next person suppose to continuously show love when they keep getting confused about who is in front of them?
If your steadily trying to please someone your going to drain yourself...there are entirely too many people we come in contact with daily thus to many people to keep happy. How you going to progress and advance if you gotta tell everybody you know what’s goin on with you just because your uncomfortable with them feeling some type of way being mad or hating a little.
Some people have to really learn to be comfortable in their own being and decisions. Learn to produce in silence with out the multiple opinions and distractions of others.
Step out of your little box it’s really the only way to excel mentally. You gotta give yourself a break, and then start from scratch. It’s ok to say “No” and fine to say “Yes” but when you use these words make it because you want to and you’re not trying to appease anyone else. Really stand behind your decisions. The ones that’s really down will still be there in the end. Focus on you lay the all the baggage down sort through it put it in it’s assumed space, garbage or keepsake. lol.
But seriously baby girl, what I ask a lot of people is “why you stressing over something you can’t change or do not have any say so in?” And my answer to question is “I don’t.” And I think that’s why people think I’m stuck up and shit. When in reality I just don’t give a fuck, it’s not my concern nor my priority. It’s someone else’s, and my decision will not make another persons. So at the end of the day nobody’s bullshit is gone stress me out point blank period!!
I would advise you to take a similar approach in life because your too young carry so much. Turn to your religion or spiritual preference because that love or assurance trumps over any persons acceptance. Let go and let God or let go and get loose. Either way let it go!
Netta B. 🖤💜🖤
Hey Wild Pearls,
Someone asked me “Do you think being a author is profitable? You been in the game for four years.” That was kind of a low blow...but I’m not sure if they knew or not, they may not know me personally.
First for me yes it is is profitable...to my soul. I want to be known for writing. So whether I get paid out the ass now or later I’m fine with it. Why? Because it is exactly what I want to do. Like any other independent job when you partake you have to be consistent, that’s my downfall. I’m not young and active like used to be. I don’t run to social sites and interact like I use to do. To answer your question if I haven’t already, yes! Anything you are adamant in feeling to accomplish every single day is worth it and very profitable if you are willing to put the time in dedication in. That’s what it encompasses hustle and patience, remember nothing comes easy or totally free if it does it won’t last or pan out like you expected there will always be boundary.
The world doesn’t revolve around you but it revolves around space and space leaves nothing but opportunity for the unpredicted and unthinkable. Be careful of what you expect.
I may not get the recognition I want as a Author now but I’m receiving the comfort in knowing I’m writing what I want and believe someone will reciprocate it.
Until next time.
Hello Wild Pearls,
First of all let me say I apologize for the wait. To be honest I didn’t think I would receive the response I did to that cry of topics. I’m out on a slight getaway and ventured to my website I seen a plethora of replies and secretly was inspired. Thank you. I never knew so many people whoever you are, were checking for me. My visitor numbers surprised me especially you unique one’s. You guys have some really good questions about me and your personal conquests, also about my personal life and decisions 🙄. I appreciate it all fake names and all, Mrs or Mr Nunya Bidznes 👈🏾🤦🏾♀️. Either way consider this my first blog post and look for at least one every week. I praise y’all for the check in whether good or bad intentions, believe that!
DISCLAIMER: I’m raw whether my own experience or yours. I won’t say your name or fake handle. I’ll just speak on a subject or say somebody asked me if I want to speak directly to you. Welcome to the life of a realist!
I would like to start a blog if you have any topics, ideas questions throw them to me in the "Whats on your mind" section.