Self Love Opens Doors

Gooood Morning Wild Things,

Someone didn’t ask me anything the “topic” or letter actually appeared to be cry. It was wrote it on today Tuesday 9/19/18. I read it once, and again a fourth time and now here I am writing to you minutes after. I know this is on you heavy because you wrote so early in the A.M. Now I really don’t know what advice to offer you but I just want to offer my outlook on a lot of people in general and my advice to them. Maybe something will hit you.
In my opinion nowadays nobody wants love but rather acceptance, envy, and clout. When I say love I’m not necessarily speaking intimately. I more so saying lacking self love people want everybody to show them love when they don’t even love themselves enough to be themselves. So how in the hell is the next person suppose to continuously show love when they keep getting confused about who is in front of them?
If your steadily trying to please someone your going to drain yourself...there are entirely too many people we come in contact with daily thus to many people to keep happy. How you going to progress and advance if you gotta tell everybody you know what’s goin on with you just because your uncomfortable with them feeling some type of way being mad or hating a little.
Some people have to really learn to be comfortable in their own being and decisions. Learn to produce in silence with out the multiple opinions and distractions of others.
Step out of your little box it’s really the only way to excel mentally. You gotta give yourself a break, and then start from scratch. It’s ok to say “No” and fine to say “Yes” but when you use these words make it because you want to and you’re not trying to appease anyone else. Really stand behind your decisions. The ones that’s really down will still be there in the end. Focus on you lay the all the baggage down sort through it put it in it’s assumed space, garbage or keepsake. lol.
But seriously baby girl, what I ask a lot of people is “why you stressing over something you can’t change or do not have any say so in?” And my answer to question is “I don’t.” And I think that’s why people think I’m stuck up and shit. When in reality I just don’t give a fuck, it’s not my concern nor my priority. It’s someone else’s, and my decision will not make another persons. So at the end of the day nobody’s bullshit is gone stress me out point blank period!!
I would advise you to take a similar approach in life because your too young carry so much. Turn to your religion or spiritual preference because that love or assurance trumps over any persons acceptance. Let go and let God or let go and get loose. Either way let it go!


Netta B. 🖤💜🖤